Time is Secondary!

When it comes to relationships, I realized that time is never the main aspect of bringing people close or healing them in break-ups or in bonding them or separating them. Time is a concept just like anything we create. Speaking of relations so as not to generalize, Kay!? ;)

When someone tells you time will heal you, time will prove to you... time will present to you, time will tell you, show you, crush you, make you.. break you...... it's just an idea... an idea that we hold on to, like any theory that's liable to be refuted. I have came to the conclusion (a personal one) that time isn't the most powerful factor in a world of relationships--particularly.

So let me answer a couple of questions.

1- what heals you in relationships and break-ups!?
 ---- it's not time. It's a DECISION from you. and (Time is secondary)

2- What makes you befriend someone so quickly without really understand how it happened so fast?
----- Souls connection -- bonding on a metaphysical level --- bonding on an unconscious level; so unconsciously you may be a person who loves calm people, so when you see a calm person you immediately like him/her, but you never really got why you did. It happened on an unconscious level. (Time is secondary)

3- What makes you love someone deeper than another and brings you much closer and closer to someone than another?
---- Situations!!! They are the REAL indicators of how tight or loose the bonds will be (Time is secondary)!

4- What makes you hate someone or something suddenly or repel or resent abruptly !?
---- Situations ---- Words ---- actions --- Those three factors have a tremulous influence on how we "suddenly react with resentment" because those factors could trigger some (previous/unconscious) unfavorable emotions in our heads of some past hateful experiences, or they could just trigger emotions that conflict and mess up with  our original basic set-up understandings of our traditions/norms/ethics/ and beliefs..etc! And once this happens, every good emotions gets overrun with unfavorable ones and the sudden reluctance, repulsive feeling occurs (so time is secondary)!

5- What makes people succeed at work?!
---- Hard work + Exposure (time is secondary)
Suppose someone is 24 years old, and another is 30 -- but the 24-year-old guy is managing the 30-year-old guy.. then, time is secondary! If enough hard work and exposure were provided for the 24-year-old guy, time will mean absolutely nothing here. Experience is always associated with time, however, if you look at it, our parents - in our age - didn't have half the experience we have. Experience should not be associated with time. Experience should be associated with how many times a person was exposed to ordeals/adversities on the personal or the professional level and from here I go back to the point that "time" is secondary!


Time is not important as we think. Time is - in my own opinion - a tool of measurement .. a standard bar up to which we compare matters to each others. Time means nothing. Don't hold on yourself to a secondary concept. Your life is all about "Situations" --- They make you, and break you (and its your choice)
"Situations" --- they uncover the true color of people for you, some are bright and some are dark.
"Situations" --- They toughen you up or weaken you.. they teach you or confuse you and you choose...
"Situations" --- They expand your brain to a new dimension... they give you a higher level of exposure..or perplex your understandings
"Situations" --- They Bring you closer to someone or drag you apart.


Time is secondary - Situations are Primary! Time only "Strengthens" a certain emotion either positively or negatively, it emphasizes on it. But TIME is never a crucial aspect.

There is no time. I don't believe in TIME.

:) This is my opinion and I am entitled :)
  
My friend Amal Ismael Asked How do we deal with the death of Loved ones?!
- 
“It's not TIME. It's the NOISE of Life 
and the conviction that they won't get back. 
It's the "CONVICTION" that we can do absolutely nothing about it. 
How many times have you cried for someone you lost 
and then the following day you
got too busy at work so you cooled off a 
little!? It's amazing how life bottles us .. 
life imprisons us in a cycle of  sequential actions that are
 too intricate and too interrelated 
in a manner that could "corner" our sorrows for a while ..
but in a moment of lonliness when the noises are all shut off, 
the sorrows re-surface, just like that! 
Their faces Haunt us.. their words...a song or a scene in a movie brings it all!
Do you ever forget someone who died or left you by 
the so-called “time!?” No. The feelings of agony get faded by the vicious cycle
 of "having to live &/or survive" but if agony finds a chance it will 
always haunt us and bring us down for the rest of our lives.